What's the best way to get better at something? Practice, practice, practice.
It doesn't matter how much you learn from this article or from other resources. In the end, the only way to get better is to actually apply what you learn and put it into practice out in the "real world" where it matters. Where real women are. That's the only way to master this material.
So, get out there, and start talking to women. Don't worry if you make mistakes. That's how you will learn and become better.
And, don't forget your mistakes either! Remember the "lessons" within them. Learn from them. Become better. Test everything out on women and keep improving on them. We all have our own styles and personalities. By practicing and testing, you'll find what works best for you.
I've given you enough information here to beat most guys to the finish line. You now have the "unfair advantage" over most guys, and most women too! ☺
Use it wisely. Use it responsibly.
I will leave you with those wise words, Oh Future Seduction Master. ☺
Remember to have fun with this! And enjoy the results you get!
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When I tell most guys to kiss the woman at this point, they get scared and surprised.
"Well, what if she doesn't want to be kissed," they ask me.
My response is… How will you find that out unless you go for the kiss??
And, for Pete's sake, don't ask for permission before you kiss her. That's what a "nice guy" would do. You're not a nice guy.
Just watch her and see what signals she gives you. Then, go in for the kiss.
Note: You're not "forcing" yourself on her. You're paying attention to how she feels and reacts. If she's not comfortable with it yet, she'll stop you. That's ok. No big deal. Don't take it as rejection. She's just not ready for it yet.
Talk more about feelings and emotions, and past experiences. Yours, hers, other peoples. The more she talks about it and feels all the emotions again, the more she will associate those feelings with you and the more ready she will become.
Sometimes, the first meeting is all it will take. Other times, it may take 2, 3, or maybe even 4 meetings before you get really hot and heavy.
Keep your head in the game. Don't lose patience, and whatever you do, do NOT become desperate or angry. That is a turn off, and it's also what will scare her off.
Remember, you want her to chase you! So, don't appear too available. Give her reasons that will want her to chase you! Set up the challenges as you did initially, and let it be known that you are a "rare commodity." Guys like you are scarce, and she doesn’t meet one everyday.
So, if she's smart, she will do what it takes to keep you. Again, you're turning the tables on her. Usually, it's the men who will do whatever it takes to hold on to the woman, even if she's completely worthless.Tags: Operating Systems, Human Interest <BR/>
Again, preparation is key. Think of how you'd want your perfect kiss to be. Or ask one of your female friends to help you out with it.
NOTE: Do you notice the "language" I'm using when I talk about these 'emotional' experiences? I'm talking the way most women think and experience life. They're very sensuous and romantic beings. They love "details" and elaborate descriptions, especially when it comes to the subject of romance and sex. It's also why they're a lot more interested in long, extended foreplay than most men are.
If you really want to get good at having women feel strong emotions while they're with you, pick up a romance novel the next time you're in the bookstore or library. Flip through the pages and read how the story is told, and how the authors describe events and experiences in it. Don't just read the story, pay attention to the "language" - pay attention to how they talk.
Remember, if you want to be able to sell to your target market, you've gotta know how to 'speak their language.'
You: Mine would have to start out reeeeally slow. So that our lips are just barely touching. And when they do make contact, you can almost feel this tingling sensation, this shiver up your spine. You can feel the soft lips touching yours. Warm, slightly wet… so sensual… so romantic… it just turns you on so much. You know?
Her: (Breathing heavily now) Um hmmm
Remember, as you're describing that perfect kiss in detail (in "present" tense) she is going to start imagining it all in her mind, and she's really going to start getting very turned on.
Keep monitoring her comfort level at all times. (In fact, it's a very good idea to do this from the very beginning of the game, right from the moment you first meet and talk to her.)Tags: Human Interest, Online Writing, Entertainment Culture, Romance novel <BR/>