Be ready to walk away if she is being too difficult or if she's not smart enough to appreciate what you have to offer her. Some women are just too dumb to recognize the opportunity to be with a man who is clearly more evolved and refined than most men. You don't want to deal with these women anyway. They will only cause you grief later on, just trust me on this one.
Remember the reason why women are drawn to jerks? It's because they have no problem walking away from women if she's not playing ball.
I want you to understand from the very beginning that there are thousands (if not millions) of women out there. Smart, sexy, beautiful, funny, generous and giving women. Women who will even drive you wild in bed. So, DON'T settle for the damaged or just plain stupid women. Some of them are just not worth your time. You really have to cement this into your brain right now.
It's also the only way you'll be able to ever establish your scarcity, which believe me, is one of the most attractive qualities in a man, from a woman's point of view. (Remember, they want most what they can't have!)
Turn it into a challenge for her!
Here's an example of a pickup that didn't initially go in the direction I wanted it to…
Me: Hey, I have those exact same shoes, but I can't wear them out because they gave me a ticket for being in violation of breaking the 'noise' code.
Her: (Puts this weird expression on her face that screams "How dare you talk to me, the wondrous, miraculous princess of beauty??" as she keeps on walking.)
(Now this is where most guys would have just given up… or worse… they would have felt angry/hurt/rejected, they would have called her names or cursed at her and walked away. And guess what, that's what women are "used to!" They know that they have the power to easily get such a reaction out of men.)
Me: (Smiling) You know, a part of me was absolutely sure that you wouldn't have a sense of humor at all, especially since you're a bit better looking than most people.
BUT… I decided to give you the benefit of the doubt anyway… and find out IF maybe you had anything more to offer than just your "looks."
You have yourself a nice day now! (And I started to walk away.)
Now… notice what happened above, and especially notice how it is different from what most guys would do in a similar situation.
After she gave me that weird "how dare you" look, I gently slapped her verbally. It's something she probably would have never expected. And as great as she looked, it's also probably something she's not used to (since most guys probably put her on a pedestal just because she looks "hot.")
Her: (Turns around to face my direction, as I'm walking away.) Uhh… hey, wait… listen… I'm sorry. I've just had a bad day… and I'm kind of in a rush…
So, what I did above immediately shifted her focus… I had her attention (because it was something she wasn't expecting.) That's the first step!
And I did all this without being angry or obnoxious. I did it without being a jerk. I simply stated the facts to her, from my point of view, with a very pleasant look on my face. (That's part of the fun for them… to get a reaction out of you when they simply ignore you. Most guys get upset or just feel rejected.)
Me: (Turning around to face her) Are you saying that you're not usually this rude and arrogant around people?
Again, I'm setting it up to where she has to try and prove to me that she's worth my time, or that she's a better person than what I think she is at this point in time.
Her: I'm really not.
Me: Alright… well, if you buy me a cup of coffee, maybe I'll forgive your behavior. Maybe I'll even tell you about this yacht that crashed into my front door last night.
Notice again, how I turned the table on her. She's used to guys buying her coffee or dinner or whatever. Except in this case, I'm having her do the buying. AND.. I also added something else into the mix… a "bonus" if you will… sharing a weird "yacht crashing into my front door" story with her. I used this to create further interest and intrigue. You can prepare an interesting story or experience of your own to use here, preferably something 'real' that actually happened, either to you or to someone else.
By the way, my 'yacht' story turned out to be a 'dream' I had recently had. Shhh.. don't tell anyone.
Her: Well…I... I can't... I have to get to the cleaners before they close.
Me: Ok… no 'weird yacht crashing' story for you, I guess.
Again, I'm just dangling the bonus in front of her… instead of "begging" which is what most guys would do.
Will it work? I don't know. Only one way to find out, right?
I'm also showing again that it's "not a big deal" for me if she decides to walk. It's not the end of the world for me. I actually feel this way! I'm not just doing this for show.
Her: Uh.. well.. if you can wait 5 minutes, I just have to run in there and pick a few things up…?
Me: Hmm…. well, alright. Don't say I never did anything for you. (Smirk)
When things are back on track, I subtly introduce humor into the conversation.
Her: (Smiles) Okay, I'll be out in a bit!Tags: They (2002 film) <BR/>