You should understand that the only reason this worked is because I showed her, from the very beginning, that I was 'unique.' I got her attention the moment I verbally slapped her to put her in her place.
AND… I also showed her that her being a bitch was unacceptable to me, and that I was willing to walk away from her if I didn't like what I saw. That's very important!
Something very important for you to understand is that other people cannot control how you feel. So, don't give them that power! It doesn't matter what the woman says or does, you're always in control of your emotions.
If she's being a bitch, you can calmly (but firmly) put her in her place. I can't tell you how much of a turn on this can be for some women. Finally, a guy who will not put up with her bullshit! She doesn't find a guy like that often.
As I mentioned earlier, this is also why women are drawn to jerks and/or "bad boys." These men walk around believing that they have "nothing to lose." If a woman turns them down, they know that there are hundreds more they can talk to.
THAT's the attitude you should have too. Have fun with the process. You should view 'approaching women' as an adventure where you're going to find out just what kind of woman you're dealing with and how you can find out if she's good enough for you!
WARNING: While this approach works very well with women, don't get arrogant or egotistical with it. Women still want a guy who can respect her as a woman, someone with a good heart. They really are looking for a nice guy. But, not so nice that she can step all over him without him doing anything about it. She wants a nice guy with a backbone. Someone who is a gentleman, BUT will not take crap from her.
As I explained earlier, often times, women do this purposely to test you! If you let them walk all over you, if you don't put them in their place when they are wrong, they won't think much of you. And you may not get anywhere with her.
I realize that I’m repeating some things here. It's for good reason. They are extremely important concepts for you to understand and adopt.
After you've set up the first meeting/date, it's time to move to the next important phase.Tags: Sexual attraction, nice guy <BR/>