Go For the Kiss

When I tell most guys to kiss the woman at this point, they get scared and surprised.

"Well, what if she doesn't want to be kissed," they ask me.

My response is… How will you find that out unless you go for the kiss??

And, for Pete's sake, don't ask for permission before you kiss her. That's what a "nice guy" would do. You're not a nice guy.

Just watch her and see what signals she gives you. Then, go in for the kiss.

Note: You're not "forcing" yourself on her. You're paying attention to how she feels and reacts. If she's not comfortable with it yet, she'll stop you. That's ok. No big deal. Don't take it as rejection. She's just not ready for it yet.

Talk more about feelings and emotions, and past experiences. Yours, hers, other peoples. The more she talks about it and feels all the emotions again, the more she will associate those feelings with you and the more ready she will become.

Sometimes, the first meeting is all it will take. Other times, it may take 2, 3, or maybe even 4 meetings before you get really hot and heavy.

Keep your head in the game. Don't lose patience, and whatever you do, do NOT become desperate or angry. That is a turn off, and it's also what will scare her off.

Remember, you want her to chase you! So, don't appear too available. Give her reasons that will want her to chase you! Set up the challenges as you did initially, and let it be known that you are a "rare commodity." Guys like you are scarce, and she doesn’t meet one everyday.

So, if she's smart, she will do what it takes to keep you. Again, you're turning the tables on her. Usually, it's the men who will do whatever it takes to hold on to the woman, even if she's completely worthless.