Every guy has gotten himself into an awkward situation trying to start a conversation to no avail. They end up saying a word or two all night or worse, not saying anything at all. Some may have attempted to break the silence and ended up saying something totally lame, which makes things worse believe me. So to save yourself some stress and to fill out the dead air, here are few ways on how to start a conversation and have a blast talking and flirting for as long as you want it.
- Smile. Smiling is the easiest way to look approachable. Can you actually engage in an animated conversation with someone who sulks and frowns all the time? The situation will be downright uncomfortable and daunting, not to mention that it's big turn off. Smiling makes the other person smile back. So create a lighter aura so as not to scare your date away.
- Talk and listen. This is a no-brainer. Of course we all need to talk and listen in a conversation. But more often than not, we tend to just talk and talk and let the other party drown to nowhere. Listen genuinely and understand what they're saying. This could lead you to more topics and more opportunity to have a good time conversing.
- Have a sense of humor. Be funny. Make her laugh. Nothing beats a guy who knows how to be laidback and crack a joke. Girls will always have a soft spot for funny dudes who are witty and can make them smile. That's probably in every girl's criteria in a guy. So quit talking about something that will make you feel downtrodden. Loosen up and remember you're on a date. Enjoy the evening.
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