Why can some men seduce women so easily, and others seem to have no success at all? The truth is that the men who have no success believe one or other of the prevalent myths about seduction which are completely untrue. Actually, seduction is not at all difficult if you have proper knowledge of the subject.
In these articles we are going to look at some of the myths and negative beliefs that you must get over if you want to have success with women.
"I was rejected by X, so I am a failure with women."
This is crazy, and yet a lot of men have this belief. Some girl they liked was not attracted to them, so they just gave up.
All men are rejected by some women. In fact, the guys who have a lot of success with women also probably have a ton more rejections than you, if they bothered counting them – but they don’t, because they are too busy looking for the next success. Whatever happened, get over it. Always remember that each and every man has been turned down in his life at least once, unless he never had the courage to try at all. Why should you allow one measly rejection to have a negative impact on your whole life?
“I wouldn’t be able to seduce anyone.”
If you think that you don’t have it in you to seduce a woman then you couldn’t be more wrong. Each and every one of us has been born with innate seduction techniques. You may not have discovered them as yet but this does not mean that you cannot seduce a woman. How will you know that seduction is not for you if you do not try it? Have more confidence in yourself. Next time you are in a situation where you are meeting women, remind yourself that there is at least one woman in the room who is attracted to you. She will not approach you but she is watching you and if you look at her, she will make eye contact and then quickly look away before she looks at you again. All you have to do is find that woman, form a connection, and you are on your way.
“Women think that I am a jerk.”
If this is because you get drunk, play the fool, look like a slob or act aggressive when you are nervous, then all of those are things you can change. Women don’t think that a guy is a jerk just because he is attracted to her. They like it. But you need to build on that. Read the chapter on the ‘mystery’ method of seduction again and concentrate on building your value. Also, ask yourself whether you may be going for the wrong type of woman, or approaching them in the wrong way. Do you go for girls who look ‘easy’, when you are really more interested in another type of girl? Try approaching the quieter ones for a change. You may be surprised how differently they react.
"She could get any guy – she won’t choose me."
Like most of the other myths, this shows lack of confidence in yourself. Look around you at the couples you see. Aren’t some of them surprising? Don’t you see lovely women with guys who seem nothing special at all? The reason for that is that those guys are special to those women. Be special, which you already are if you can believe in yourself, and there is no reason why she would not go for you.Tags: Human Interest, negative impact, Personal Growth, proper knowledge, negative beliefs <BR/>