Start Building a Relationship/Bond Immediately

Here's something interesting about how men and women differ: Men have sex with women first and then they fall in love. Women fall in love with men first, and then they have sex with them.

Men are ready to sleep with a woman on the first date, if they find her attractive. Women operate a little differently. Of course, this is not always the case. But, most times it is.

What does that tell you? It tells me that in order for 'most' women to feel comfortable about having sex with you, they first need to feel an emotional connection with you.

Women are emotional creatures. This is why they devour romance novels and can't resist romantic movies. It's also why those little romantic gestures mean more to them than presents you spend money on. (Gold diggers excluded.)

In most cases, it takes women at least 3 or 4 dates before they can begin to feel comfortable and 'ready' to want to sleep with you. Sometimes longer.

But, here's what's interesting… it doesn't have to take that long for them to get to that place in their mind. You can speed up the process, if you know how.