Have you ever wondered why men who are total jerks always get all the women? . It's because they walk around with an attitude of "not giving a crap." If a woman doesn't respond to him like he wants, he doesn't care. He just walks off. Because he knows that there are hundreds of women out there.
Jerks are also not afraid to speak their mind. If a woman tries to boss him around or be unreasonable, he will not hesitate to let her have it.
Women are drawn to men like that. Not because women are stupid and only want to date jerks. Not at all. It's because women can sense that "I don’t care if she says no" attitude in these jerks. That's what women find attractive. Also, when women try to push them around, they will put the woman in her place quick. Without even blinking. That's what women are drawn to.
Now you know why women often end up with jerks when there are so many "nice guys" around that will do anything she asks for.
Obviously, I don't want you to become a jerk. You can still be a gentleman, you can still be "nice." BUT, I want you to adopt a similar mindset of "not giving a crap if the woman doesn't respond to you favorably" because there are plenty other women out there for you. Also, don't ever let her walk all over you or she'll quickly lose respect for you. Don't be afraid to give it to the woman (verbally) when she's being rude, obnoxious, or just a plain ol' bitch.
Walk around with that attitude and women will be drawn to you like moths to a flame! I kid you not.
Here's a classic example taken out of a bar setting:
Man: Hi, how are you? I'm Jack.
Woman: I don't talk to you unless you buy me a drink first. (in an arrogant tone.)
Man: Waiter! Can I get a glass of water here, for this… lady?
The man then turns back to the woman and says…
Man: Funny. You "looked" like a nice person. I guess looks can be deceiving.
He then walks up and leaves.
A few minutes later, the same woman "accidentally" bumps into Jack again at a different location of the same bar. And, she says…
Woman: I'm sorry about before. That was rude of me. Would you like to talk?
What the heck happened there??
It doesn't seem like it should have worked, right? But it did!Tags: Friend zone, tone man, nice guys <BR/>